Receiving gifts is lovely, it's just amazing. When we unwrap those gifts, it's a pleasure to hear that sound made by the shining packing covers.

For a person like me, who isn't much social and have very few finger counted friends in life, receiving gifts is something more to me. I feel blessed.

I have seen a lot of pain in my life, never wanted to share that with the world, but I know every single battle I fought and inch by the time I got not to smile. For that reason, I owe to those people who makes me smile when they are around.
In real life, I failed in getting such friends. No matter what how much I adjust, those friendships broke down, leaving me all alone and depressed.

Thanks to the social networking sites & Blogging. These both platforms gave me those friends who are there with me when am deep in the mire of sadness and abandoned. 
I owe you all. Those friends about whom am talking will know exactly how much I respect them and love them. May God bless you all.

Nobody stay with the weak, but my friends took my side and lifted me up. There are brothers, sisters and best friends. A big thanks to all.

Now, let's back on to the topic, am talking about the gifts and how we and our family will feel when we receive them. Especially crossing the seas and countries. Me & my family cherished that blessed moment when the EMS delivered to us from the Indonesia. It's from Mrs. Roui.
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Gifts like this, from a million miles away are really special. Before posting them we thought that the delivery may not be assured because of the distance. But for affection, there are no boundaries and restrictions.

Mrs. Roui, my sister is a good lady. She lives in Indonesia and she supported me in everything from the day one.

She introduced her entire family and all became my family too. Like I said, no borders.

It's not those materialist items pushed me to write, but that love she has for us all. She didn't had any second thought of cash she is investing in the gifts. That thought is divine.

And she is a talented person, she does magic with the fabric and then gifts them to those she love.

Indonesian attires are colourful and beautiful, they include the Batik. In the future, I'll make a post about the Batik and it's designing and making process. In this post I'll share about the gifts I received and their importance in my life. 
All thanks to God for  allowing me to meet such a kind hearted person.

The gifts from Indonesia are for my whole family. I got a Batik shirt and two books, coasters for glasses for mom, a tie for dad, pouch for sis and an owl. Yeah! Owl, now am officially in the family of b Indonesian.

All these gifts made me happy, because they came from million miles away, so safe and clean. No more losing of any item, even a pin.

I appreciate the EMS's delivery method and their standard rules.

Let's have a look at the gifts. I see them not with any eye, but with the heart.
World's Showcase - Gifts

Batik is both, an art and a craft. This shirt weighs more than any of the ordinary cloth made shirts. And it is as soft as velvet and as smooth as silk.
World's Showcase - Gifts

And why all these gifts? Because these are the symbol of love and respect. No barriers and no limits.
Am pretty sure about one thing that there needs nothing in this world, but a good smiling face that wishes you every morning and makes our day brighter.

Being a lone ranger will teach us the warrior skills, but later on we all need someone who rescue us from that pain. And God knows very well when to react. This is what happened with me and Mrs. Roui.

If I call her 'my dear sister' then I mean it. Sisterhood is lovely. And when they guides and shares the experience, that is a happier thing.

Love is a gift, not everyone owns it. The one who owns, they'll get cherished memories written on their every page of the diary. Love is everywhere, here this love isn't the one which develops at night and ends the other day, this love isn't about a marriage or having any relationship. This is farther than them all.

This love is the one which keeps me back on track and say to me that I can start from where I began in the past. This is not a love between a boy and a girl who are willing to marry, this is caring.

I've just planned to show off the gifts and say thanks to Roui, but I ended up writing these all. This is my first ever post to write about the gifts.
World's Showcase - Gifts

I don't know how many are fetching the love, you don't need to fetch it. It'll be at your door when the time arrives. Then grab it and don't let it go. It's an opportunity of a lifetime.

Abandoning the respected persons whom you love is backstabbing and if at any point of our life we made such mistake, it's the time to correct them. Because there might be no time for the acceptance.

The way we speak and the words we deliver are what will judge us one day.

Good people will reflect only goodness wherever they are, once the trust is broken, our lives aren't enough to make them believe us back.

And here's my acceptance of the owl and thereby joining the family. Thank you Roui :)
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mother's day

Today is mother's day, everyone is gifting their moms the things with love and it's really nice to watch how much they love their mothers. They are providing all the materialistic items, am not saying it's a wrong, it's wonderful. But what actually a mother needs and expects from her children? Does the children meeting those expectations?

Before we answer to the above two questions, let's see how motherhood is  divine.

When a child is born, world feels happy and they celebrate. Father feels proud that he got someone to carry the legacy. In the mother's mind, it begins a battle. A battle of love, but not hatred. She now has a new responsibility for the child, she now has to balance the love for her husband and the child.

Parenting starts with the moms, they handle their children with lot of care. Multitasking skills are more likely to be with the women, when they become mothers, it is seen in the action.

Being a mother means taking all the responsibility and moving on with a strategy in raising the child. She knows very well that her children are the replica of her, they represent the entire family when they're grown ups. She knows exactly how to guide and motivate them and shape them. She will do this in her entire life irrespective of her children age.

Mothers love isn't compared to any of the other earthly love. It's unique and it's very special. In mothers love there are no restrictions, whether the mother is a poor or rich, celebrity or a common person, her love will be the same. 
This love is divine and that patience is not mastered by anyone.

Mothers love has no species difference. Animals even the most cruel form of beasts express the same amount of love, birds and other animals. So, motherhood is the symbol of love.

When we need to draw a symbol of love, within 2 seconds we draw a heart symbol, but I think it's the picture of a mother with her child and pampering the child is the true symbol of love.

When we continue the topic to stay on love, that love is too deep, it's attachments are long. Not a day write can explain it.
Mother's day
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For any woman, motherhood is the next level, she needs lot of time to manage all things. When we talk about a typical Indian girl it's always the hard work.

The work she do at house is her responsibility and task. She builds the house. In The Holy Bible, from the Book of Proverbs, we see the following verses about a woman.

Proverbs 31 : 10-30

10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 
13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 
14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 
15 She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. 
16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. 
17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. 
18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. 
19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. 
20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. 
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. 
22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. 
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. 26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 
28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 
29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all." 
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.

Now let's back to the question. What does a mother actually expects from her children. Not any gifts we offer her, she needs that love. She sacrificed her nights to keep you safe and sound sleep, she sacrificed her tastes and likes for us, she sacrificed her everything for our sake to make us happy.

We have no substitute for that love & sacrifice. All we can do is to love her, there left nothing to sacrifice for her because she is the one who paid it all.

The role of a mother is divine, with the involvement of God only that motherhood is praised. Mothers has a very special place in all our lives, are we making them happy?

When we are kids, we cried for toys and she bought us by passing it to father. When we cry today, she will give her life to us. That love isn't changing, neither increasing nor decreasing. It's constant, if I may say it has increased more.

On this mother's day, we can make our moms happy with our actions. 
If she is praying for a change in us, let's change and gift her. If she is expecting a development in our lives, let's develop and gift her. If she wish to see us on top, let's get to the top and gift her.

Let's do this, whatever it takes. Because she is the only person who is the reason and meaning to our lives.

There are also few among us, who has lost their moms and staying away from celebrating the mothers day. My dear friends, if you avoid this the comfort you get here is a temporary. If you cry, wipe your tears and work to achieve the dreams of your mom, that happiness is heartful one. Fulfill her dreams and gift her, somewhere she is there, still watching you and caring for you. 
If you cry, she cries. If you rejoice, she rejoices. If you are depressed and feeling abandoned, she is right there beside you to pat your back and say 'my child am still with you'.

Think once, what's this death to separate mother from a child? Her love is unconditional, it can beat the death and come to you to see you again. 
Let's gift her that happiness.

Mother always defends her child, but if she punishes it's for good. If she supports you even after a bad deed, the child chooses that path considering it as a good one. If mom punishes, it means the child need to turn away from the bad.
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A virtual Mother's Day gift :

In the current generation, after getting married many couples work together to earn both hands. They say they don't find enough time to meet their parents and talk to them. Few will provide them money and few won't. 
What I personally saw is keeping their parents in the old age homes. How can this be justified?

Elders, they are lacking respect in the society because the youngsters think that they are outdated and waste of time. If they aren't there, am sure the world will be a place of bad mess. 
When parents are elders, it's the responsibility of a son/daughter to look after them and talk to them. No explanations and reasons to escape, because when you were a kid, if they left you all alone, would you be the one who you are now?

My dream is big, my dream, your dream and all our dream is huge. It is to see no old age homes filled with those elders who has family and children. Nowadays orphanages also filled with these elders who has children too. Isn't this the thing to be sorted out!

They may give them money and gifts, but are these what they needed from their children? For a wife they are abandoning parents. For a husband they are leaving them behind, when will this be done?

Why can't they treat both the family as one? 
Lot of questions we are looking forward to hearing from those elders. Many answers are still unanswered, question marks on their faces are still there.

What's the virtual gift here? It's the love & caring only.

To all my dear readers and fellow bloggers, I wish you a Happy Mother's Day. If you are a mother, I salute you, if you are a child, I request you to make your mom happy.
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SandraN N-am baut nimic

Music unveils the inner happiness, music is the best cure for pain and it has no boundaries. Whenever I get the opportunity to write about music, I jump with rejoicing and I care not for any inconvenience in writing. Because the am aware of the power of music.

Music has no language, it is the best medium to travel to happiness and no matter what the language, it plays in, it will make us happy. Language is not a restriction to enjoy the music.

Years ago, I was not a big music fan, I never carried any music resources with me. Then it came to me, touched me when am down and distressed, then the divinity in it is felt.

Since then I wrote about music, I talk about it and I feel it.

Sandra N is my favourite singer from Romania. Her music touches the deepest nerves of the heart and tickle them to dance.
There are many posts about my favourite songwriter in this blog and every post is written with all the love. And the result has been the posts about her tops always.

Her new single is live now on YouTube.

I decided to take a ride with the song and review it.

Sandra N - N-am baut nimic
Sandra N N-am baut nimic

Alexandra Naftanaila's (Sandra N) new single is all about dance and music. The music and the dance moves in this song are simply adorable.

She is a good dancer and for every new song she changes her style, hairstyle and attire according to that song. If this song is about English, she dress like an English girl, if it's Arab, she dress like Arabic.

What I liked much in the N-am baut nimic is the background with those transition light effects and the screenplay. 
No doubt with all these things the song now is a big hit.

Her dance floor is rocked by the base of the music and the mics blow up due to the heat wave from the surrounding sounds. The echoes of her voice is another attractive asset. This is the hit, once again Sandra rocked it.

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Few days back WhatsApp, the top messaging platform around the globe has enabled the end-to-end encryption. Because of this many countries are trying to disable the method because it is not safe for the nation. Even India got the same issues, already a petition has placed against this.

WhatsApp is everybody's favourite now. Due to it's wicked fastness in delivering the messages across the world and also the calling feature. Many other apps are dominated by WhatsApp because of the speed and reliability of it. It is getting updated time to time and the latest features include sharing of PDF documents. This made office works easy and everyone has the WhatsApp who has the smartphone. And all this is for free, no hidden costs are there.

When coming to the latest version, the introduction of end-to-end encryption is seen. What is this end-to-end encryption? Let's see.

End-to-end encryption :

To say in our words not technically, this is nothing but a privacy. Only the two persons are able to get back their chat messages if needed in the future. Even the WhatsApp servers won't store any kind of traces of the messages.

There are no keys to the messages with WhatsApp servers. This is a good news in terms of personal preference, but when coming to the national security this is the biggest security breach. Because even the government security officials can't do anything to retrieve the messages from a person who involved in any chat during any criminal investigation etc. According to our Indian judicial system this is a crime. This is the national security threat.

Because nobody will come to know if the two terrorists plan through the chat.

This encryption is good for a common citizen as he thinks that this is protecting his privacy. But in the sight of law, they're going to miss their shot at stopping the trouble.

WhatsApp is deeply connected to us all, even the app saved many lives with the messaging service during any disasters. And it provided an environment of soft working procedure in government sectors.

WhatsApp In India

Now the situation seems like we all are here with two options. Either to stop using WhatsApp or use it and breach the security.

There is also a news that many countries are reaching the WhatsApp to talk about this. In the view of WhatsApp developers, this end-to-end encryption is done to provide their users a safe place for chatting. And this may disobey the law, but for a common WhatsApp user it's a good thing.

We are now provided an option whether to stand with the app or delete it and help the nation. We are helpless once any country reacts highly and bans the app then those people are out of WhatsApp. And we are not sure if the WhatsApp developers team going to step back and disable the encryption. Whatever may happen, we are the witness of an amazing app, this is the revolution of messaging and everybody will agree with the statement.

For now, let's hope for good that we may not lose our friends who are in other countries. There are still other messaging apps out there, but I am pretty sure they won't be the same as WhatsApp.

What do you think is needed to done here? Do share your ideas and opinions in the comment section below. 
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